I also believe that the bond is still there...and once in a while H lets it show....just enough to keep my hope alive.
Yes H allows hugs....but that's about it, everything else would be cheating on OW....Actually we stopped hugging the day he announced that the affair is back on only 2 weeks after he made all kinds of promises and wanted to reconcile....after he told me he said "could I hug you?" And I said "no, just go"...ever since then he didn't initiate hugs and either did I....until this week.
Today H emails to ask if he can come over and work on my computer and use my printer...there is something wrong with his. I said that he can come after dinner, he replied that he can't come in the evening because he will be too tired by then "I am running on fumes these days" he said....so I'm letting him come before dinner.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
