Don't mind read, its probably not about you. My experience here is that they think about themselves all the time .... they become selfish beings and think about their misery, about how unfair life is to them, how to justify what they are doing, etc. etc. The desire for meaningful convo with their spouse no longer exists because they are not keen on working on their M. I know that hurts, but that was what is happening to me.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
