Still needing some encouragement

[kissak]

Im beginning to think that my H was never in MLC. Maybe he is just a "pig"! Maybe he has been all along and I was just to foolish to see it.

So, even if he has a OW right now or even just dating, he still makes sexual induindos (sp) to me. Guess he is just feeling me out to see if I would do anything with him again. I completely ignored is actions last night.

He picked up the kids last night. That is after I asked him to please think about getting them once a week, that going 2 weeks without seeing them werent right. SO he got them last night for 3 hours. The last thing I said to him before he left was to make sure our D did her homework, it was something he would be able to help her with better than me and she had been doing poorly in this class and not completing her work...sooo, 3 hours later he brings her home, fussing at her for not REMEMBERING that SHE had homework! SO NONE of it got done, therefore she stayed up way too late working on it. Ok, she is adhd and sometimes we have to remind her to focus....what happened, the went and got supper, went back to his place while they all ate, watched tv, and he sat and texted the entire time on his phone. This is what my children told me. THen when he drops them off he said he was in a hurry because HE forgot to go and do some work that he does parttime. Seems whoever he is dating or whatever, is completely toxic to him, or addicted or something that he cant remember things he needs to do.

He knew I was annoyed with him over this, he texted me when he left several times that he was sorry, but they were begging for supper then arguing (welcome to my fulltime job) and he forgot. Then he said he would do better, he promised. I didnt answer any of them, because what I wanted to say would come out....but then he called. I told him that it was irresponsible to do nothing but text, while he should have been being a parent!! UGH~ told him thank you for sayin he would do better next time, I just said ok, thank you, then told him I was done with the conversation because I didnt want to argue.

Am I dealing with another child or a grown up? SOmeone remind me please because I have forgotten.....

Will he ever grow up and be a man?