I am very concerned about our court/legal status. We have mediation this coming Monday and H has so far done nothing for this divorce he initiated, except he initiated it that is.
I am sure he will not show up for this appointment either. It frankly has me confused whether he wants it or not or is in denial or not or, or, or....
I plan on following through with the process. I do not see another way out still at this point.
Yes, H still makes contact. I think he thinks it's a friendship. I don't initiate contact, he does plenty for us both. Today he texted me a funny joke. I will just keep doing what I am doing. I don't know what else to do.
I still wish things could be different.
I wish I had not quit my job. I miss everyone (except bossman) and already feel the pinch in my wallet. I am trying to conserve but I want son to have a nice Christmas too!!
I will be fine. You and I know that
I will be interested in seeing if your H contacts you two before your trip together.
I assume he knows all about this
Have a wonderful, memorable time with your daughter
Sanderika
ME48/H48MLC T 33y M 28y S16 OW 8/7/05 Bomb 8/16/05 Sep 9/05 H f'd D 10/3/08 D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09 D dismissed 2/5/10 H served me D papers again 9/4/10 D dismissed 9/26/11