Hi Cas,

I am doing good. Thank you for asking after me.

Christmas has me in a good mood this year.

I am very concerned about our court/legal status. We have mediation this coming Monday and H has so far done nothing for this divorce he initiated, except he initiated it that is.

I am sure he will not show up for this appointment either. It frankly has me confused whether he wants it or not or is in denial or not or, or, or....

I plan on following through with the process. I do not see another way out still at this point.

Yes, H still makes contact. I think he thinks it's a friendship. I don't initiate contact, he does plenty for us both.
Today he texted me a funny joke. I will just keep doing what I am doing. I don't know what else to do.

I still wish things could be different.

I wish I had not quit my job. I miss everyone (except bossman)
and already feel the pinch in my wallet. I am trying to conserve but I want son to have a nice Christmas too!!

I will be fine. You and I know that smile

I will be interested in seeing if your H contacts you two before your trip together.

I assume he knows all about this wink

Have a wonderful, memorable time with your daughter smile

Sanderika


ME48/H48MLC
T 33y
M 28y
S16
OW 8/7/05
Bomb 8/16/05
Sep 9/05
H f'd D 10/3/08
D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09
D dismissed 2/5/10
H served me D papers again 9/4/10
D dismissed 9/26/11