When life hands you lemons add alcohol and stir!

[mishka422]

Not sure I handled this in the 'correct' way but I feel good about it.

I picked him up (his flight was 15 minutes early so that put me in a bit of a rush) and the second he got in the car he leaned over and gave me a HUGE, long kiss and said he was so happy to be home. He's not an initiator so that was nice.

We just started chatting on the way and I talked about what he had done when he first got there last Wednesday (he was having family drama immediately with his sister who is a total fruitloop!). He then told me about Thursday and meeting up with his dad and his best friend and then going to his house to stay but then they decided to go have drinks that night and they ended up at a hotel near the bar they went to so they didn't have to drive home. He came out with that without me prompting him. I told him I must have misunderstood because I thought he was spending that night at his mom's. He said he had planned to but then after the drama and mess he didn't want to run into his sister again that day so he went with his friend (who also let him borrow an extra car so he could get around on his own).

I didn't need to confront him on anything, I didn't even lead him into it. He came out with that on his own and knowing what was going on with his family, it makes total sense.

I do plan to have a sit down with him very soon to discuss where this R is going. I can't be guessing about his intentions anymore. It's really starting to hurt my heart and my head!

Started weight watchers new plan this past weekend. I've blown it twice this week already. This time of year is IMPOSSIBLE to stay on track but it's better that I try otherwise I'll put on 10 pounds easily if I don't pay attention at least part of the time.

Tomorrow needs to be a holiday in our city! My son's high school is in the state championship football game for the first time in school history tomorrow night. They play in the Georgia Dome (where the Falcons play) at 8pm tomorrow night. The excitement is at a fever pitch now!!! GO PANTHERS!