Can I Get My Wife Back

[TimeHeals]

If you are paying for it, how are you 'forcing' anything?

The way I see it, you let her force you out of your own home using your fear of losing her as the weapon to accomplish that.

If you are going to get divorced, you are going to get divorced. The fear is just something you feel.

You don't let your feelings dictate your actions. Fear, anger, sadness, etc--those are feelings. You don't lead with your feelings. You lead with your principles.

Right now you appear very weak. How attractive is being weak? People who let their emotions determine their actions and lack self-control appear weak, and it's just not attractive. I doubt your wife respects you if you are letting fear (or other emotions drive your actions).

This is something you need to work on in yourself. It didn't just pop up due to this crisis. You had this problem of leading with your emotions before the crisis or there is no way we'd be having this discussion.

Something to think about.