Another week already? Madness. It is freezing here and though it hasn't snowed yet, it feels like it could at any minute. Stbx came over this weekend briefly and wanted to scrump but well that did not happen. I think he left feeling frustrated but hey, what about me?! Same ol, same ol. Says we should D (since we've already gone thru the trouble of hiring Ls), not see anyone/hang w/ anyone in the interim, then get back together and w/in a year, remarry if things are good. The reason we went thru trouble of hiring L's is casue he filed for D. He also said he's willing to drag out the D as long as possible sinec it appears I've moved on. Okaay. Anyway. I have just a few exams left for the semester and got a pretty good grade of one of my finals this weekend. Sweet! So wish I was at the beach right now...
Sorry to hear about the new BS from your H. Dragging the D out now because he doesn't want you as a wife but also doesn't want you to see someone else...so immature, indecisive and unattractive. He seems to make these random decisions based on emotions alone- real men take emotions into consideration but act thoughtfully and deliberately. I'd tell him in a calm way he can try to drag the D out that's his choice but if he thinks that will have a positive influence on the outcome then he's wrong again. You've already made him an offer, either he can stop the D or get the hell outta the way. There's nothing else to discuss or talk about...goodbye, be gone.
Congrats on doing well on your exam. I can't even imagine going through all this BS and being able to do well on tests, you're doing a great job.
Snow sounds awesome at this time of the year!
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
Congrats on doing well on your exam. I can't even imagine going through all this BS and being able to do well on tests, you're doing a great job.
Uh :: standing on my head with eyes crossed:: I have no idea how the heck I am doing it! LOL.
As for him wanting to drag out the D, I didn't even respond really. Because I know we're almost there. Tomorrow our Ls go to schedule the final hearing. He is just talking smack.
Fa la al ala.
I really really want to see the Black Swan movie with Natalie Portman. Have you heard of it? It looks really good!
And this is where I get to use my IC's favorite term for my ex--- "Crazymaker"! Sounds like your H is a crazy-maker, or at least he wants to be one, so he is probably bummed that he isn't getting to you more with his antics.
So, go ahead, spend the money on the D, then get back together? Interesting logic there...
And I want to see Black Swan too! I was in ballet for all my K-12 years! Too bad we don't live closer, I would go with you!
^ LOL. We can have a "virtual movie date." I guess it's not getting wide release which SUCKS. But when it does, I'm on it like ham on cheese!
Yeah "crazymaking" is a perfect way to describe him! And "gaslighting" is another term that fits his script! Last night he was saying how badly he wanted to spend the night wtih me. I said, Me, too, under different circumstances... He said "ok" and have't talked to him since.
Today our Ls go to schedule our final hearing. He has said repeatedly the house has negative equity but I just found out it doesn't.
Can't believe it's almost Christmas! I love this time of year so much. This year really did fly by. Been posting here for a lil over a year now.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
Yes, long time soleil:) I don't have wireless in my apartment anymore so less time here. I have cut contact with my X completely and I think the last time we heard each others voices before 2 nights ago was 3 weeks. Two nights ago she wanted me to call her about our D8's school so I did. She ended up telling me how she regretted getting the house we got in the neighborhood we got and seemed like she has been thinking about things. She gave me another overnight during the week too! Strange. Why does it take so long for the WAS to think clearly? I understand your comment about you being CONFUSED.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
