What do you do when he wants to be your "friend" and chat all day via email like we use to do when our marriage was good and we dated? I am afraid if I dont answer his emails it will bring up memories of how bad the last three months were - we stopped talking during the day and shut down at night after the babies went to bed. We are talking more now then we ever had and I dont know how or what to do... this DB isnt easy.

My goal for today is only to talk about my Situation here on the board and not to any family or friends - its consuming my every thought again. My other goal for the day is to enjoy my babies today since I dont have to work