on my walk into work it final dawns on me what he just said and with the help DB and the forums i realised to listen to what he needed, he said i never have any solutions just moan about the problems and on reflection i do just moan hoping that he will see my point of view but he never does, also he said that he is not an emotional person doesnt require hugs and kisses and that i should say when this is needed. Never before in all these years has he admitted that, he ususal just says that he hates how i am and so does not want to be near me. I have now sent him a text message sayin 'i'm sorry for being part of the problem and not part of the solution, how about i text you my feelings that way i wont seeing your actions and react to them, what do you think?' it has been 3 hrs now and he has not replied so i take it he is not interested anymore, we were meant to go out to our skating session this afternoon, i love to skate can't skate but love going but since he brings his friends along its not quality time together IMO so again feel unwanted, but as he has not replied to my message i take it we're not going :0(
