Let's get back to the interactions between the two of you, the things that she is not happy with?
I know the GAL. The 180 I need to reread.
What are your MORE OF THE SAME behaviors? Those things that you both do over and over again that leads you down the wrong path?
The 180 you need is THE OPPOSITE of these things. And it's very important to identify them.
It just seems pointless. With her comment she seems to be a mix of MLC WAW and in the fog. As much as the A hurts I really like my family whole.
I'm glad you have a spirit to push through your pain for the higher good of your family. When you heal your marriage the love you rekindle will make it all worth it.
The problem with thinking about your wife as being in an MLC/WAW fog is that it leaves you helpless/powerless. It's the BLAME GAME. When you focus on your part of the equation, you strengthen what is good and you turn the relationship around by changing your pattern of interaction.
You're capable. You have a good mind and a good heart. Go for it.
