If you're paying for everything, then you need to go back home. Stay in another room if you need to, but move back in. Talk to her about it first. Not for approval, but to state how you are paying everything and you need to move back home.
I understand Bond's point, but you will probably need a gentler approach.
You are lucky to have Mr.Bond and Bworl here--they are steering you in a good direction.
