Thank you for your feedback. I am REALLY puzzling about whether or not to respond to BMF in some way. I agree, Mila, that this is an indication that XH still talks about me to BMF.........However, the "strategy" that Jody suggested has me being less attentive, but flirty, toward XH. I'm not sure how XH would perceive it if I responded to BMF.
I don't really "do" a real FB page under my real name. I originally made that account so that I could FB XH's sister a couple years ago, so if I responded to BMF's friend request he would see that there is nothing on my real FB page. Maybe it's better to be mysterious??????
I could always send a quick text about something.......Don't want BMF to find my DB FB page.