Oops I wasn't clear--when I said "open to R" I meant 'reconciliation' not a new relationship! I am not there yet by a loooong shot. BUt I am glad to see you post and tell us how you are doing. Christmas is going to sneak up this year, I think.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
