OMG, CW, it is so important that you do not take this personally! He has some serious deep-rooted issues. Arguing about it will not help, I promise. He knows he has problems I assure you and this is why he gets defensive. He will retreat further inside himself with continued arguing.
Is your appointment coming up soon? Why not hold off on any sex talk with your H until after your appt. He/she should have some very valuable advice.
(Formerly blgp) Me-35 H-33 Married 4 yrs Together 9 yrs "Bomb" 8/1/10 Separated 8/6/10 D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11
"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."
