I remember a text H sent me in the beginning saying that he feels like he is insane.
lol! That may be the most 'sane' thing you are going to hear from him in a while. Wish mine were that self aware.
Sorry you got snapped at. Unfortunately, there probably is no such thing as a resonable request in his world. You don't deserve it. Maybe he will see that someday.
You have made a lot of progress, BTW. You should be proud of how you are handling yourself
