Just got my first e-mail from H in weeks. Wasn't even necessary. Haven't answered... he found my pool cue cover (billiards was a shared interest, one that brought us together). I only asked for this 3 months ago...
(Formerly blgp) Me-35 H-33 Married 4 yrs Together 9 yrs "Bomb" 8/1/10 Separated 8/6/10 D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11
"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."
M39 W41 Two children WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09 Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10 No longer piecing...Nov 10 Separation Jan 11 EA ends again Feb 11 Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11
Thanks. I did answer, wanted to wait but because of the mailbox set up, he can see when I open anything from him. Waited a bit, thanked him for finding it and asked him if he could place all of my things that he finds in a specific area, was thinking about stopping over on Thurs or Fri to pick up the rest of my things, but would give him a heads up if/when I am able to make it over there... (the would occur while he is at work, wouldn't need to see him then)
(Formerly blgp) Me-35 H-33 Married 4 yrs Together 9 yrs "Bomb" 8/1/10 Separated 8/6/10 D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11
"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."
Good job! to answer your question, I live in the washington DC area
And thank you for the prayer, I won't lie, I feel like I need them
M39 W41 Two children WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09 Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10 No longer piecing...Nov 10 Separation Jan 11 EA ends again Feb 11 Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11
Got a bit of a snippy reply from H about coming to get my things. He told me I can come over whenever I want to get the rest. He seemed to get a bit defensive about putting things in one place. Wow, I didn't think I could have made my e-mail anymore benign but I guess he still found a way to take offense.
GW, FTR, what Lost said about you is absolutely true. You are very obviously an amazing person. You don't deserve to be anyone's second best. Neither do I. The only way I get through that part is realizing how messed up our S's are. I remember a text H sent me in the beginning saying that he feels like he is insane.
(Formerly blgp) Me-35 H-33 Married 4 yrs Together 9 yrs "Bomb" 8/1/10 Separated 8/6/10 D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11
"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."
Thanks Evolve. Snippy reply to be expected unfortunately.
M39 W41 Two children WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09 Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10 No longer piecing...Nov 10 Separation Jan 11 EA ends again Feb 11 Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11
Hi Evolve, sorry not been around, been in the grip of a crappy cold so not doing so well, caught up with you in the alt! Will be back to chat soon I promise!
____________________________
W 47 H 47 M 24 T 30
Once lost but now found and happily married again!
I remember a text H sent me in the beginning saying that he feels like he is insane.
lol! That may be the most 'sane' thing you are going to hear from him in a while. Wish mine were that self aware.
Sorry you got snapped at. Unfortunately, there probably is no such thing as a resonable request in his world. You don't deserve it. Maybe he will see that someday.
You have made a lot of progress, BTW. You should be proud of how you are handling yourself
