WASs have a sense of urgency when they do things. That's why having patience in this mess is the most important thing to learn. My W was the same way. She wanted the D now, she wanted to sell the home now, etc.
HOnestly in our home market, it would have been incredibly stupid to do so. So I've been able to hold on to everything now.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.