So, you are already in semi-LRT, and you seem to be doing well with that. I am also 5 years older than my H ... and sometimes I felt I was a mother figure for him. Careful of that. Although, he is the breadwinner, and very much the passive-aggressive type. I am stronger than him, I think, as was proved during my illness in the last 2 years.
There are so many variations, and dynamics within a R. Sometimes, we seem similar on bb, but in essence, our R's are all very unique. We can only throw in ideas, and thoughts for the person on the other side of the keyboard to gnaw over. This is a good place to brainstorm. I have done so many, many times over the years.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim