Reading things like her facebook page can knock you off your path. Leaving her be, keeping the pressure on her as low as possible...these are the things that will lessen the tension between the two of you.

You read something startling, your brain starts creating worst case scenarios, and before you know it, you're contacting her saying all kinds of things you'll wish you could take back later.

Your mission right now is to become a better man. It includes improving yourself, yes. But it also includes learning how to live a life that satisfies you, even when she is not a part of things. This is important, even if it seems counter productive. A man that can be satisfied and complete without a partner/spouse is a confident, self-sufficient man. A man who lives his life with honesty and integrity, even when his wife isn't looking, well, that is a man that a woman would want to be around more often.


There are no guarantees in any approach. But you can be sure that pushing her and applying pressure to make "final" decisions is not going to work out well for you right now.


It IS hard. Anything worthwhile comes at a cost.Do you love this woman enough to do the hard work for both of you right now?



Blessings,

Bill

"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."