I hope that's true. It would give us all amazing hope for the future. It sure is nice to think that's the way life is. I'm working on a tactic to change the dynamics of our R. It's so hard to know what to do,and scary to think of all that may happen with change,but sometimes we just have to take a leap of faith that the changes we will make will be for the better. I feel we are at a crossroads in our R and I have to back off and let my H start taking more initiative. I'm afraid he won't and we'll grow apart or he'll turn to the OW thinking I don't really want him.I have to do something though because I'm not happy with the way he treats me or the desire he feels for me. He's just riding along with me making all our plans and trying to make this R work. He knows I'm here for him and that I love him. I need help deciding what steps to take in order to make him know that if he does not eventually start meeting some of my needs that I won't be around forever. It's a fine line, I know. I'm sure many who are past this stage wondered the same things I'm wondering now. My attitude is changing and it's kinda scaring me. I want more. I'm just not sure how to get it. Any suggestions?? Rachael
