Yeah, I agree Angel ... we do pick up on all those little things when in crisis mode. Our ears are geared for any hint in the voices of WAS's, or expression (facial or bodily) they may show. Once you truly step back, drop the rope, then it gets to be more normal.

I wonder what your H would do if you decided to withdraw ... as in sleep in another room, only speak if spoken to, etc., play hard to get. LRT, I think it's called ... last resort technique. I only wonder because it seems he thinks he has you as a back-up, but is still pursuing the OW. Is it possible that if the OW decided to get with him again, he will be gone? Are you comfortable with that scenario? And, is that the case, do you think?

Just throwing ideas and thoughts out there.


Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
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