Me too, I use Carol (and Dean, right) as my model. My H also is undergoing MLC so its such a similar story. Having OW an hour away would drive me crazy, I agree. If you asked H to go away, will you be able to handle the daily logistics of taking care of the kids, juggling different aspects of your life? I remember one of the times that H seemd to change was when I told him that if not for the kids I would have agreed to an S already as I could not stand the pain anymore. It made him talk to me about OW and disclose that things were not going well for them, and my read into that was that he was trying to get me to stay. Of course it might have been cake eating.....
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
