I have been at my new job in the other state since Monday. I go home for the weekend tomorrow. Need some advice. Her Christmas Party for her work is Friday night. I am a little nervous because these are her support and they only have her side of the story. But that doesnt matter in how I will act. My concern is I will be watching for the attention and affection of my wife and I seriously expect it to be minimal. This is where I will need to mask my feelings and remain silent.
This week, she has initiated phone calls and some emails. I have emailed her light stuff about budget and household reminders and have left the txt's to a minimum. She has called me everymorning to have my S9 say good morning and she has called in the evening to say good night after putting my son to bed. She has been very short on the phone and not in a cheerful loving mood and I have not persued any further conversation other than to tell her I appreciate her and her efforts and I love and miss her.
The facts are she is still married, we are in some type of communication and she is still saying I love you and I miss you back to me and if I hold out she will say I love you at the end of the phone call but I have to wait for it.
Any advice from the folks here on what I can do differently? I am being positive and not melty. I am not fighting or arguing or being a downer. I am trying to support her. she is still obviously angry at me from last weekend when I drunk dialed her.
She did tell me she is proud of me yesterday and I sent her an Iphone picture and she replied I was very handsome and to have a nice day.
Am I on the right track?
M:42 W:39 S:9 M:20 T:25 D-bomb: 30 Sep 10 Wife changed her mind: 31 Oct 10 Working on it: 31 Oct 10
