Im the same way as far as dating. I know this guy I have been talking to and becoming friends with,he wants to date me, but its hard to even allow myself to go there. To open my heart, I just dont know how.
Kissak dear,
I really think all of us are going to be kind of raw until time
can heal us up a bit. I can't imagine dating either and never
thought about it in the M. I think now you can afford to be very
picky since you know more than most about men/women going through
something like this. At least now you know what NOT to look for
and some warning signs of potential trouble. That is another
gift/benefit (Mila) since you were listing them a while back.
It would be absolutely horrible to be even a little bit
desperate right now because that will come back to bite you and
remembering that the infatuation period is around 3 months or so
should be firmly entrenched in your head IMHO. I am not saying
you are desperate but remember what you have learned.
