So let me get this straight. My x hooks up with her boss at work , they have an affair and within a year and a half purchase a home together and you want me to send her a “ friendly email” asking her not to put the girls in the middle of what we are going thru. X did not tell me she was involved with her boss, x did not tell me she was buying a home with her boss and to add insult to injury my girls have just told me “ Moms new friend has his kids full time “ My x who could not run a home with two kids and working part time is now going to run a home with four kids. I’m sure you sense of frustration. Where is my x going to get the energy to not only take care of 4 kids but to put “ hers / ours “ first in the day to day activates , school etc. By me saying sorry in any why shape or form would mean I respect her and that is so far from the truth. If she had of come clean right off the bat about her new “ friend” there may have been a chance (years down the road) we could have been friends. As such she has crossed and burned a bridge which there is no return. Adultery and disrespect will not be forgotten, and yes there will be times where my girls will be effected…. It is called live. Stitch
