MLC or just an EA?

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Oh well. So I did a little snooping, saw the emails.
He indeed was bluffing at first. How well I know my H.
OW said OK, she will do it, but in a "non-OW manner" business like but friendly. My respect for her went up a notch.
When I got home, house was empty without D, but sooo peaceful. H was out, went to supermarket, came back, asked if I wanted to go to gym with him, I said no (one of the few times I refused).
He cooked dinner, we did not talk much but our convo was light. He was not upbeat (which actually I found more comforting, as it seemd like he was more accepting, not fighting, the situation) but at least he was not withdrawn. And when he slept, he seemd to let go more and did not do the "cling to the end ofthe mattress" thing which he does when he is uptight, but leaned against me most of the night.
Its funny how I notice those little things now. The DR book really made me open my eyes and ears and hear all the little nuances of conversation, etc. I thought it was intuition but I think its more of discernment.