I have a meeting with a financial divorce planner to see if the offer he's made will work for me. If she says no, then I have some documentation to either re-negotiate the agreement or go back to court.
My L says I'd do no worse, and probably better. I feel pretty comfortable that I am in the "driver's seat" and my H will just have to wait until I feel perfectly fine about it all.
H wants to play "happy family" for Christmas and I am debating this idea--on one hand I can see that it is better for my S. On the other, I want to go visit my family for the holidays, and re-connect with people I haven't seen for years.
Thanks Kat for your continued support. You are such a darling--I wish I could meet you IRL!! Hey! I have a big house in Florida if you ever want to come for a visit!!lol. 45 minutes from Disney... : )
