When life hands you lemons add alcohol and stir!

[mishka422]

I'm definitely doing this in person. Not a phone thing. I need to see him eyes when I ask him.

I like BBJ's approach to being neutral when asking him. I know the Econolodge he stayed at was in Anaheim and he went to Disneyland the next day. His mom lives up in Pasadena so it would have been a long drive from her house to the park but he also could have told me that. That's what set me off! We'll see how it goes. I pick him up at 8:30p tonight.

I know he's homesick. He's been telling me that for 3 days now. He said that a week was just too long to be gone and that California just isn't home anymore. And not long ago he wanted to move back there? Hmmmmm.......

Too many conflicting things and I HATE trying to sort it all out. My quiet little life with no big, scary decisions is much preferred.