da10, i am happy that you husband is going to the seminar with you. If you read the DR book then you know you need to take baby steps. Recognize them as such, and look for more. Keep doing everything for you and your baby.
I hope that the sanat photos are a great family memory. You need them and so does your child. Keep it simply about that.
I notice the post about the spouse being depressed after breaking contact with OW, well we all know this is going to happen. Sometimes that connection is so strong it feels like they lose everything.
My wife came home, was so upset about losing OM she left and went home. It happens, i let anger take over and just ruined all my hard work. Dont worry about what he is doing with OW, i know it is hard, but you need to focus on you and your child.
Your doing great, keep up the good work. You will come out of this a better person.
