H's MLC - he is still lost but I found myself

[Mila]

Thank you kissak, I know that the Holidays are though on my H...he barely held it together yesterday when we touched on the subject....we loved our Xmas and all of our traditions....I don't know what I should do...should I invite him for Xmas Eve to have dinner with us and bring D her presents? I would do it more for D then for him....but would it make things better or worse to have him there....would it be uncomfortable and more painful for all of us? I guess it would be for me...but maybe it would be good for D & H....don't know what's better...