Is it a bad idea to lie to WAH?

[Long_Way_To_Go]

I figured it was a bad idea. We are not living in the same house and he is so wrapped up in himself and the OW that he is not even contacting me anymore and I guess I wanted to do something that might get his attention.

I have been keeping myself very busy: going to the gym, second job for the holidays, starting a website, planning a winter vacation, doing things around my house, dressing nice, spending time with family but he doesn't see any of this.

I feel like I am doing all of the right things, but am not seeing any baby steps right now. Oh well, I guess time is on my side--in our state you have to be living apart for a year before filing for divorce so we still have 9 months to go.