This is exactly what I am wrestling with. Post holidays do I continue to let things unfold or do I step things up? I have thought of telling her that she needs to either end the EA or move out of the house. I have also thought of telling her mother who is very supportive of me and knows that her daughter has a number of issues. Because of the kids, I don't really want to walk away, but on the otherhand, I don't like how she is behaving as a mother. At this time she basically goes to work, comes home has a drink, eats supper which I usually make and then sits on the couch for the rest of the night drinking wine.
I am really need to develop a strategy post holidays that will allow to keep going for the next year. I am just not sure what would be the most effective approach. I am open to putting some or all of these back on the table, if they can help the situation.
