We haven't started therapy yet - I couldn't get DD in until January. I am in IC, and that has helped me to keep a better perspective.
My H is over a lot - we are still sorting through stuff to pack for him, and he's been working nights so he was coming over and visiting them at my house for 30 min before they'd go to bed. If he's here when they fall asleep, both kids have rough nights and cry a lot, and the next morning is usually not good. I'm not letting him do that anymore.
