What I don't understand, is whether or not I should just stand by and do nothing and let their relationship unfold, or do I say that it cannot continue under our current living arrangement?
Well, you've taken intervention (exposure) off the table, so you won't be telling OM's wife (if he has one) or your wife's family about the affair.
You've also stated that you are not willing to walk away and are waiting for her to decide what to do while she pursues another man.
So what is it you are going to do? You've taken everything but you just dealing with things off the table.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
