I know I'm going to get in trouble for saying this but I'm going to do it anyway.
Please WAIT for God's answer. He will answer you.
I'm not saying that Sandi's answer is wrong. It may be what God tells you to do but wait for God to tell you that. Please.
Don't put a time limit on God. He may answer you today or it may be after Christmas. If you don't hear from Him then His answer may be - do nothing.
The "world's" answers are so different from what God tells us to do. Read 1 Corin 7:12-16 and then pray about it again.
I know this hurts. "False starts"...It is part of the process. Praying and waiting is part of the process too.
GW - I think from what I have read that it's not just about you or the girls it's about what God wants you to do too.
I am not saying wait until after Christmas. I am saying wait until you have an answer from God. If he wants you to do what Sandi and these boards tell you to do God will tell you that. Trust Him!
