Antonia,

All of us has at one time or another tried to time travel ourselves into the future. First, it can't be done. Second, if it could, you really wouldn't want to, would you. You can't say, at the ripe old age of 41, that if this ends in divorce, you will end up a lonely, old, bitter woman with 39 cats that chases kids off her yard.

I know exactly what you mean. But looking back, some of the best parts of my life, the most memorable parts, came when I least expected it. Even with my stbxh. It usually comes right after you get that first cat. Lol