So let me guess. You're getting all worked up again and getting mad. Tell me again what kind of changes you said you were making? It sounds like you haven't changed one bit.
Why would your W want to come back to you now when you haven't changed. She's right to say that you won't change. YOu're showing that now. Or are you going to prove her wrong?
Delete her FB account from your computer. Delete her phone number from your phone. Take away any triggers that you think might get you jealous again.
If you don't plan to change, then you might as well get the D papers drawn up tomorrow. Is that what you want?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
I haven't contacted her about it, was just venting. Just upsets me she is living in our house with my money and acting like everything in fine. She doesn't even have a job.
Need some advice. I left the house over two months ago and am currently just staying with my parents. My wife is unemployed and a full time student. My pay check is currently direct deposited into her account where our car and house payment are automatically debited from the account. Should i stop the automatic deposit of my pay check into her account and pay the house payment and car payment and leave her to fend for herself on the rest of just leave it like it is for the time being.
My apologies; I thought I had read where a friend of hers told you she was having an affair, and then I saw you said your wife was chatting on FB. Perhaps I misunderstood.
crap