wife preparing to leave me and kids

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She started a conversation about it again last night the summary would be that either I can sign seperation papers or she can have me served. She is determined. To buy this property contradicting herself about the M saying she doesn't want to be married anymore but then not answering the question so are we done, getting mad at do you want the D papers but ok with the seperation paper. What is that she is doing? I would still like a chance to save this M.