You don't want to go down that road. Is it worth getting arrested or sued? I understand the anger. Hell my W's OM came to my working place to try and get me fired.
The biggest thing I was proud of was staring at the OM in the face and having no fear in calling his bluff. I knew that even if I was fired at that time, I'd be alright and I'd be a better man than the @$$hole he was.
As for the drug use, do you have kids? I would expose that because that puts them in danger.
For the STD's, if he's having sex with your ExW and others while knowing he has this, he can be thrown in jail for putting women at risk.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
