EXwife was having affair with younger coworker for many months. I tried all the DB, but to no avail.
Do I want her back? Nope.
Do I want revenge? Yes.
For the past 6 months, I have been thinking/plotting... of hurting the OM.... everything from harming him physically (not me doing it).... withdrawing his bank account (don't ask)... trashing his car..... and my favorite... exposing his actions (shaming) to ALL HIS COWORKERS.... including his drug use... and STDs..... (will this fire him? of course not... but to have people talking.. just in time for xmass party).... (no.. i would not use my own email address nor IP address).....
Curious... I know none of you "good people" would EVER do something like this... but perhaps you "heard" of different examples...