I'm glad that H responded positively to your gesture. Interesting that he still does things to take care of your home (letting the front door mat drain). It sounds like an act of service. Is this one of his LL's?
Yes, Acts of Service is most definitely H's primary LL.
Originally Posted By: goodattitudegirl
I laughed out loud when I read this. ^^^^^^^^^^^ MIL is really passive aggressive, isn't she? Has she always been this way?
Yes! MIL has always been passive aggressive. However, she sees herself as a peace keeper. The problem is that both MIL and FIL have never been good communicators. They never openly discuss issues. For example; when H's affair was disclosed communication between them and H was stopped for months. In fact, I was the one who urged them to rectify the situation.
You're right about MIL. I can't afford to have her off-side, especially now that she has given me the advice not to be in contact with H. Luckily she lives interstate.
Couple of other interesting things; H invited S and D for Christmas. As the kids will be with my family for lunch H gave them a choice of being with him Christmas Eve to stay overnight or Christmas Day for dinner and again to stay overnight. The kids opted for option 2. H usually has lunch with ow and stays with her Christmas night.
H invited D to go interstate to visit his parents in Feb for a weekend. Thought that was interesting given that he said he would be moving away after new year.
Something else but I can't remember what it was.......... I'll hit submit and then remember!
