CW I am sorry that it is happening before the A ended. The weird thing is, if you decided to be open to R sometime down the line, you still can be. The D has given me a sense of freedom from suffering but hasn't made me stop loving exH. I am free to live my journey for a bit without worrying of consequences toward R. I hope you end up feeling similar when you are done...or that the D gets dropped of course!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
