Can I Get My Wife Back

[John170]

I told her right after separation that i wanted to make her happy. she said i could that i have tried for 13 years and that if she ever loved me it dosnt just die.

[MrBond]

It's a good idea. If you never complimented your W before, now is the time to do it. Just don't go overboard. Don't write anything like "I Miss You" on the card. You might be able to add "I'm proud of you." but that's it.

[MrBond]

"I told her right after separation that i wanted to make her happy. she said i could that i have tried for 13 years and that if she ever loved me it dosnt just die."

Love takes work. And after 2 A's, it takes more work than if there wasn't an A. After the A, it was your responsibility to do the work. To build your W back up. You didn't but at least you're trying to learn.

Stop the jealousy, the anger and start showing her respect. Respect is a big difference from kissing @$$.

[John170]

thanks bond im really trying despite most folks opinions, my wife means the world to me she is the most beautiful and precious thing in the world to me. I cant express how sorry i am for hurting her. Yes im desperate to get her back, but i want to do it the right way so this doesn't happen again.

[MrBond]

"she is the most beautiful and precious thing in the world to me."

After your A that's what you should have told and acted to show her. Constantly.

Right now do simple actions here and there. She needs time and space. Let your positive changes show and DO NOT backslide.

[John170]

bond im trying very very hard to give her space. i cant no express the love i have for her.

[John170]

day two of no contact dang this is hard.

[dbmod]

It is. But you've received just wonderful advice from Mr. Bond and Bworl. Keep giving her space for a bit. It's truly doing something. Day 2 is more than a lot of people can do. Good job!

[John170]

She is just laughing and playing on facebook like nutten is wrong and she is happy without me

[dbmod]

ignore that.