MLC or just an EA?

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Its actually a long distance EA - she is in a different city (Thank God!. What happened:He said he will send reimbursement money to another employee through OW when she goes on vacation in their home country (she is not from here). The other employee is my friend and told me, and tried to get my H to not do it through OW, but he said he already emailed OW for the favor. So I don't know if he was just bluffing or what.
For me, being a follower is sort of like a 180. I used to looked on by H as domineering, so now am changing that. I think he needs the respect and the recognition that he does deserve, as he is a good provider and also makes good decisions for the family in most ways except for this present problem.
I think he responds to a certain level of pursuit, as long as it is not suffocating him. I don't know though if any DB'er agrees. If not, I will try going completely LRT.
My sense is that his EA was ended prematurely - he always told me it was a temporary thing, but I thinked he was psyching himself up for the separation. Is this possible?