Hey GAG,
That was a really lovely message you sent XH which should make him feel good about buying the tablet and feel good about himself, too.

I wonder if all any of us really want is to feel safe, cared for and nurtured by those important to us in our lives. I think your option to reinforce that is very wise and I strongly believe what is given comes back ten fold.

Contact from BMF is very strange and intriguing.........

Was the text on Thanksgiving simply sending you wishes?

Perhaps BMF has acknowledged that his relationship with XH can only be possible by finally accepting that you are a real part of XH's life.

Perhaps he has spoken of you to XH and XH has challenged him to reach out to you??