Quote: They say that IF we survive these nightmares that our Ms can come out stronger and more loving, and I actually DO believe that that's possible. And so to ME, THIS TIME, there is NO room for passive-aggressiveness. If he or I need something then we MUST articulate it because we have already proven to ourselves and each other that we CANNOT read each other's minds.
And as for THEM changing..the answer is hell yes. They can change and they DO change...but they have to CHOOSE to change
AMEN sister!!
That's been one of my fears...sliding into the old passive aggressive ways...thanks for putting into words how I feel and what I need to be doing!!
