And you know what? That "acting as if" S is coming home or getting closer really makes a hugh difference. Not only with me but also my H. He has picked up on it and has stepped even closer because of it.
One thing I find here is a few forget about Michele's Book~Divorce Remedy. If more people would live by that book, they would be here in piecing. And you can't just read it once. I can't tell you how many times I've read it! It is such an inspiration to me! When I have doubts I pick it up and then come here to get support!
I wish there was a way to get to others out there, that are lost. Thinking like I did in the beginning; that there is no hope and to listen to well-meaning friends whom I quote by saying, "Get a D and move on" Boy were they wrong. And they darn near drove me to insanity!
If I had money and time, I'd go out and give people "the book" that really needed it! I has made me a better person, and I have a very good chance of saving my M on top of it!
TG I found this site and that book! 2004 looks very good to me!
