I wouldn't trade the pain for what I've learned ..

[AntoniaB]

I wanted to comment on your subject line because I think of this often now. Recently I hit the point where I said that if I could hit a button and go back in time to the day before my H met the OW, would I do it, knowing everything I learned and the friendships I've gained would be lost.

A month ago I'd have probably still said yes to pushing that button. But in the past few weeks, I'd say no. Don't push the button.

And every time I waver, I think about your subject line because you're SO right. You've been very inspiring to me :-)