She didn't say she was done with ME, she said she still loved me but wasn't IN-LOVE with me anymore. We had been going to counseling, but she finally decided that she was done trying to work on our R and that there wasn't anything worth saving. She wants to be happy and in-love, and thinks she'll get that chance if we separate.
She told me not to move out yet and everything I've read says to stay as long as possible. Ever since then, things have been a lot less tense and she seems much happier. I've been trying to put on a brave face like nothing is wrong and that I'm fine without her(like I've read here).
So yeah, we've been hanging out kind of like roommates. She still lets me know what she's doing and still texts me when she's on her way home from work. I'm just so confused about what all this means. Is she just relieved to get all that off her chest and is now just hanging out with her "friend?" Or did getting that off her chest relieve some of her anger and uncertainty, and possibly let go a little and see me in a different light? Without so much resentment?
M:28 W:28 Together:13yrs high school sweethearts Married:2 currently filing living separately
