That is bad news, Angel. It sucks to have to rely on OW to get your H back. Do you know for sure that he saw her?

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his leadership of the family, letting him know that although I am strong my role is still that of the follower

This part of the email may make him feel pressured and guilty. Is that what you were going for? Also, being a "follower" seems like you are pursuing. But, you know your H best, so he may respond to this type of communication. As you say, it's taking a chance, and sometimes we have to do that.

Stay strong.

Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim